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No choice

No choice
by digby

You either own your body or you don’t

As we know, the conservative evangelicals are Trump’s most fervent supporters. And they are already getting their agenda enacted through such extreme acts as holding the Supreme Court seat open for a hard right replacement for Scalia. And they are getting some very important restrictions on abortion and LGBT rights through executive order. Just a couple of weeks ago they gave a “religious exemption” for medical personnel who disapprove of gender reassignment surgery and abortion.

And the Republicans are introducing the fatuous and dishonest 20 week abortion ban:

In the midst of an unresolved dispute over funding the federal government and insuring protections for hundreds of thousands of young undocumented immigrants, Senate Republicans plan to vote on a 20 week abortion ban next week, re-opening a debate on the legal medical procedure at a politically charged moment.

Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell (R-KY) moved to vote on anti-choice legislation introduced by Sen. Lindsey Graham (R-SC) on Wednesday, clearing the way for a procedural vote as soon as Monday.

“Now Congress has an opportunity to take a step forward… [and] I’m pleased to have filed cloture on this bill to protect unborn children who are capable of feeling pain,” McConnell said.

That a lie and yet another example of the GOP’s superstitious war on science.

This 20 week ban is obviously a bargaining chip and yet another bit of tribute for the slavering right wing in the middle of this whole ugly mess. Since Graham is involved I’d guess he thinks he can buy off the xenophobes by sacrificing women. He might even be right. Or he could be just as deluded as he was when he thought he could cajole Donald Trump by flattering his golf swing.

Anyway,  Bill Moyers and Company, put together some testimony from Americans whose lives and futures depended on the right to choose an abortion. I thought I’d run some of these stories over the next week. I found them to be very moving and important.

This isn’t some abstract argument over a potential life. It’s an argument about the lives of fully sentient human beings who are the only people on this earth capable of making decisions about their own bodies and whether they are in a position to gestate and procreate. Mitch McConnell and Lindsey Graham are the last people on earth who should make those decisions.

Here are a couple of them to start off:


No Choice: Gaylon Alcaraz from BillMoyers.com on Vimeo.

Gaylon Alcaraz grew up on the South Side of Chicago and attended a Catholic girls school where she didn’t receive comprehensive sex education. She was 17 years old when she first became pregnant. She knew she was not ready to become a mother, so she had an abortion. Today Gaylon, a mother of two, is a reproductive justice activist fighting for the women in her community. This is her story


No Choice: Waldo Fielding from BillMoyers.com on Vimeo.

In the 1950s, Dr. Waldo Fielding was an obstetrician working at Harlem Hospital in Manhattan. He remembers women from the community coming to him — many terrified they would be reported — with complications from backroom abortions. After Roe, he remembers the protestors at his Boston clinic and the harassment women endured just to access medical care. This is his story.



There is more on this series at Bill Moyers and Friends.

Politics and Reality Radio: Are Dems Really the ‘Most United Party’ in Modern History?; Kentuckians Sue Trump Over Medicaid Sabotage

Politics and Reality Radio: Are Dems Really the ‘Most United Party’ in Modern History?; Kentuckians Sue Trump Over Medicaid Sabotagewith Joshua Holland

This week, author and researcher Sean McElwee joins us to push back on some deeply embedded conventional wisdom about the supposed battle for the “heart and soul” of the Democratic Party. Everyone wants to believe they’re engaged in a grand ideological dispute, but McElwee argues that after years of leftward movement within the coalition, it’s really much ado about very little.
Then we’ll be joined by Cara Stewart, an attorney with the Kentucky Equal Justice Center, to talk about a lawsuit that she and her colleagues filed this week challenging the Trump regime’s guidance allowing states to impose new restrictions on Medicaid that threaten to strip insurance coverage from tens of thousands of low income workers in the Bluegrass State.

Playlist:
Ennio Morricone: “The Good, The Bad and The Ugly Theme”
Elvis Presley: “King Creole”

As always, you can also subscribe to the show on iTunes, Soundcloud or Podbean.

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A helpful reminder

A helpful reminderby digby

George W. Bush was really bad. He may not have been as bad as Trump in certain ways but he was a simple-minded fool whose only good point was that he’d grown up in politics and spent time in his daddy’s White House so he understood how government worked. And his image team and White House staff was so much slicker. Imagine if Trump had the sense to empower his own Cheney and let him run with it.
Trump could not exist if it weren’t for Bush and the decadent Republicans going batshit crazy over the past couple of decades:

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Two steps forward, one step back

Two steps forward, one step backby digby

And if this continues, it will be one step forward, two steps back.

A new survey commissioned by the LGBT media-advocacy group GLAAD and conducted by The Harris Poll found that fewer non-LGBT adults reported being comfortable with their LGBT peers than in previous years.

This marks the first time in the four-year history of the Accelerating Acceptance report that GLAAD has witnessed a decline in LGBT acceptance.

“This year, the acceptance pendulum abruptly stopped and swung in the opposite direction,” GLAAD President and CEO Sarah Kate Ellis wrote in the 2018 report, noting the sharp contrast between this year’s results and the last three years of watching Americans report being “more comfortable with LGBTQ people and more supportive of LGBTQ issues.”

The annual GLAAD survey asks non-LGBT Americans to describe how comfortable they are in several scenarios involving LGBT people, like learning that a doctor is LGBT, witnessing a same-sex couple holding hands, or worshipping alongside an LGBT person at church.

This year’s version, conducted in November 2017, found “a decline with people’s comfort year-over-year,” not just in a few of the scenarios, but “in every LGBTQ situation.”

For example, in 2016, 27 percent of non-LGBT Americans said that they would be “very” or “somewhat” uncomfortable with learning that a family member is LGBT; in 2017, that figure jumped all the way up to 32 percent.

The conservative evangelicals are the most loyal members of the Republican base, giving cover to anything that Trump and the wingnuts want to do. And they do have an agenda. Rolling back LGBT rights is right at the top with abortion. At some point they are going to call in their chips.

Yes, this can happen. Lots of things can go backwards under the right circumstances.

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Trump’s role model

Trump’s role modelby digby


I’m sure Trump thinks this is an excellent idea
. Certainly he likes Putin’s tactic of banning his political rivals from running against him by trumping up charges and then saying he’s disqualified from running due to his criminal record. Trump’s DOJ put a bunch of American on trial for protesting his inauguration but it didn’t work. And he is still pushing for his former political rival to be put in jail.

Russian protesters shouting slogans including “Putin is a thief!” gathered briefly around the Russian government’s headquarters while marching through central Moscow.

The lengthy march Sunday by the mostly young group of several hundred protesters came after a large gathering at Pushkin Square dispersed. The rally was among protests nationwide in support of opposition leader Alexei Navalny’s call to boycott the March 18 presidential election.

The marchers headed down Novy Arbat, one of Moscow’s widest and busiest avenues, to the riverside government building colloquially known as the Russian White House. They shouted slogans and some threw handfuls of snow through the high, spiked fence surrounding the building before moving on.

Russian opposition leader Alexei Navalny, who was detained by police en route to an unauthorized protest rally in Moscow, is expected to be charged with a public-order violation.

That charge could bring a punishment of 20 days in jail.

Navalny called for nationwide demonstrations Sunday to support a boycott of Russia’s March 18 presidential election, in which Vladimir Putin is seeking a fourth term. Navalny has been barred from running in the election.

Navalny was seized by police Sunday while walking to the Moscow protest. Russian news reports cited police as saying he was likely to be charged with violating a law on calling public demonstrations.

Who is President Putin going to blame this time? Hillary Clinton hasn’t even said a word about it.

Trump holds the same sentiments about dealing with his political rivals, he just hasn’t been able to figure out a way do it. Perhaps this is one silver lining of the Russia investigation I hadn’t thought of. Trump is so distracted by his legal troubles that he’s only testing his powers to protect himself instead of fully embracing the authoritarianism he so obviously believes in.

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Forbearance, or lack thereof by @BloggersRUs

Forbearance, or lack thereof
by Tom Sullivan

The confidence Americans place in their being exceptional has proven over the last few years to be a hollow boast. Not that it wasn’t all along. And not that they have given up on boasting. They elected a hollow president whose career has been one long, empty boast.

Steven Levitsky and Daniel Ziblatt, the authors of “How Democracies Die,” examine just how fragile our is for the New York Times. Two norms undergird an American system that endured through crises for nearly two and a half centuries:

To function well, democratic constitutions must be reinforced by two basic norms, or unwritten rules. The first is mutual toleration, according to which politicians accept their opponents as legitimate. When mutual toleration exists, we recognize that our partisan rivals are loyal citizens who love our country just as we do.

The second norm is forbearance, or self-restraint in the exercise of power. Forbearance is the act of not exercising a legal right. In politics, it means not deploying one’s institutional prerogatives to the hilt, even if it’s legal to do so.

There’s the rub. We have watched politicians and parties push the limits of legal and stretched the norms by finding the line, stepping over it, and daring adversaries (or the courts) to push them back. Often the assaults come on multiple fronts at once. Where there is no pushback or an insufficiently vigorous one, a new norm takes root. A legislative Overton’s Window.

Levitsky and Ziblatt continue:

America’s constitutional system thus requires forbearance. If our leaders deploy their legal prerogatives without restraint, it could bring severe dysfunction, and even constitutional crisis. Mark Tushnet, a law professor at Harvard, calls such behavior — exploiting the letter of the law to undermine its spirit — “constitutional hardball.”

Look at any failing democracy and you will find constitutional hardball. In postwar Argentina, when President Juan Perón encountered Supreme Court opposition, his congressional allies impeached three of five justices on grounds of “malfeasance” and replaced them with loyalists. In 2004, when Venezuela’s high court proved too independent, congressional allies of President Hugo Chávez added 12 seats to the 20-member court and filled them with loyalists. Both Perón’s and Chávez’s court-packing schemes were legal, but they nevertheless destroyed judicial independence.

We may not be on the brink of another civil war, they write, but we face a period more polarized than any in the last hundred years:

This is not a traditional liberal-conservative divide. People don’t fear and loathe one another over taxes or health care. As political scientists have shown, the roots of today’s polarization are racial and cultural. Whereas 50 years ago both parties were overwhelmingly white and equally religious, advances in civil rights, decades of immigration and the migration of religious conservatives to the Republican Party have given rise to two fundamentally different parties: one that is ethnically diverse and increasingly secular and one that is overwhelmingly white and predominantly Christian.

White Christians are not just any group: They are a once-dominant majority in decline. When a dominant group’s social status is threatened, racial and cultural differences can be perceived as existential and irreconcilable. The resulting polarization preceded (indeed, made possible) the Trump presidency, and it is likely to persist after it.

The extreme polarization brought on by those tensions has led to the abandonment of mutual toleration and the embrace of tribal politics that vilifies the out group while forgiving a multitude of sins within one’s own tribe.

In such a setting, politicians are tempted to leverage all their powers to win at all costs, norms be damned, principles, be damned, morals be damned. Witness Tony Perkins, leader of the evangelical Family Research Council last week. In response to allegations that Donald Trump had an affair with a porn star four months after the birth of his son Barron, Perkins responded, “We kind of gave him — ‘All right, you get a mulligan. You get a do-over here.’”

And the clown show of White House spokespersons and congressional shills standing before national cameras and lying through their teeth that up is down, black is white, truths are lies, and wrong is right.

But that “once-dominant majority in decline” exists outside the Beltway as well, as does “constitutional hardball.” As Digby pointed out yesterday, Wisconsin Governor Scott Walker was unnerved by Democrat Patty Schachtner winning a state Senate seat by 11 points in special election in a district that voted for Trump 55-38. Walker has responded by refusing to call any more special elections for vacancies in the State Assembly and the State Senate until January 2019. This, piled atop his record for passing one of the most egregious vote-suppressing photo ID laws in the country. Wisconsin, second in the nation for voter turnout in 2008 and 2012, saw its lowest turnout since 2000 in 2016.

Ari Berman wrote last fall:

After the election, registered voters in Milwaukee County and Madison’s Dane County were surveyed about why they didn’t cast a ballot. Eleven percent cited the voter ID law and said they didn’t have an acceptable ID; of those, more than half said the law was the “main reason” they didn’t vote. According to the study’s author, University of Wisconsin-Madison political scientist Kenneth Mayer, that finding implies that between 12,000 and 23,000 registered voters in Madison and Milwaukee—and as many as 45,000 statewide—were deterred from voting by the ID law. “We have hard evidence there were tens of thousands of people who were unable to vote because of the voter ID law,” he says.

Trump’s margin of victory in Wisconsin was roughly 23,000 votes.

It is a wonder the Republican majority in North Carolina’s legislature finds any time to legislate. Since gaining control in 2010, leading Republicans have spent years in state and federal courts defending legislation passed legally that casts established norms to the wind in pursuit of a few more years of GOP control.

Much of the national focus has been on gerrymandering performed “with almost surgical precision.” Courts have ruled congressional as well as state legislative maps unconstitutional. But Republicans in North Carolina, as in Wisconsin, have attacked ideological foes on a number of fronts, both in regular session and in a string of special sessions called to undo norms standing in the way of complete control. Those legal moves too have led them to court and a growing string of defeats:

On Friday, the North Carolina Supreme Court struck down a Republican-sponsored measure stripping Democratic Gov. Roy Cooper of his ability to regulate the state’s elections. The 4–3 decision preserves Cooper’s control of the State Board of Elections, ensuring he will be able to restore voting rights throughout North Carolina in time for the 2018 election.

Following Cooper’s election in November 2016, the GOP-dominated General Assembly passed a series of bills weakening the governorship and concentrating power in the legislature. The centerpiece of this effort was a radical overhaul of the board of elections. Previously, the board had five members, with three from the governor’s party. Under former Republican Gov. Pat McCrory, the body authorized a dramatic rollback of early voting and a reduction in polling places, particularly in minority-heavy communities. Cooper planned to reverse these policies. But before he could, the legislature restructured the board, creating a new group with eight appointees, four Democratic and four Republican. The practical effect would be near-constant gridlock.

But they’ve engineered bipartisan gridlock, so it’s all good.

Update:

The estimable DocDawg of Insight-Us breaks down in detail how the NCGOP’s Election Board scheme was supposed to have worked to suppress the vote.

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Request a copy of For The Win, my county-level election mechanics primer, at tom.bluecentury at gmail.

Sew into you: “Phantom Thread” By Dennis Hartley @denofcinema5

Saturday Night at the Movies

Sew into you: Phantom Thread (***½)
By Dennis Hartley

It wasn’t just me. Halfway through Phantom Thread, Paul Thomas Anderson’s claustrophobic chamber drama examining the pitfalls of obsessive, overly-possessive love in its many-splintered guises, I began to think “Uh-Hitchcock’s Rebecca? Anyone?”

Fast-forward a few days, and I stumble across a Rolling Stone interview with Anderson:

[Anderson] “I love Hitchcock’s Rebecca so much, but I watch it and about halfway through, I always find myself wishing that Joan Fontaine would just say, “Right, I have had enough of your shit. I think I have had more than my fair share of your bullshit, so let me just get the fuck out of here.” [Laughs] And yet poor Joan has to keep putting up with it.”

Well okay, then.

If you are not familiar, Rebecca is Hitchcock’s adaptation of Daphne Du Maurier’s novel about a young woman (Joan Fontaine) who falls in love with a rich widower (Laurence Olivier). They quickly marry, and he spirits her away to his lavish estate. Initially, it’s like a storybook romance for the young bride; but she soon finds herself at loggerheads with an imperious, overly-intrusive housekeeper, who strictly enforces a stringent set of “house rules” (like one of those severe matrons in a women’s prison film). And indeed, the question becomes: is the young wife the mistress of the house…or is she its prisoner?

Which begs a question. Why do people tend to take more than their fair share of bullshit (and usually for much longer than they should) when they are in a less-than-ideal relationship? Is it as simple as Woody Allen conjectured…“Because we need the eggs”?

Ah, the mysteries of love. But back to the subject at hand, before I lose the thread (sorry).

Anderson has reenlisted his There Will Be Blood leading man, Daniel Day-Lewis. In (what is purported to be) his swan song role, Day-Lewis inhabits Reynolds Woodcock, a London-based, high-end fashion designer who caters to the fashionistas and blue bloods of 1950s Europe. As I watched Day-Lewis’ elegantly measured characterization unfold, I kept flashing on the lyrics from an old Queen song. Reynolds Woodcock is well versed in etiquette, insatiable in appetite, fastidious and precise-and guaranteed to blow your mind.

This is one weird cat; which is to say, a typical Anderson study. Handsome, charismatic and exquisitely tailored, Woodcock easily charms any woman in his proximity, yet…something about him is cold and distant as the moon. He may even be on the spectrum, with his intense focus and single-mindedness about his work (or perhaps that’s the definition of genius, in any profession?). At any rate, Woodcock is an atypical male, with an apprising gaze that suggests he’s mentally dressing every new woman he meets.

One day, while enjoying a country getaway, the well-appointed, metropolitan Woodcock espies the woman (or the muse?) of his dreams-a young waitress of modest means and nebulous European accent, named Alma (Vicky Krieps). It appears to be love at first sight, but appearances can be deceiving. The disparity between what Reynolds and Alma each defines as “love” informs the ensuing relationship, and the film’s central narrative.

Akin to the aforementioned Hitchcock film, the star-struck young woman/soon-to-be bride is spirited off to lavish digs, where she finds herself at loggerheads with an imperious, overly-intrusive figure who strictly enforces a stringent set of “house rules”. In this case, the third wheel isn’t the housekeeper, but rather Reynold’s sister Cyril (Lesley Manville), also his business partner. Without giving too much away, this is where Anderson’s film significantly parts ways with Hitchcock’s; as the issue of who is the “warden” and who is the “prisoner” in this love relationship becomes a shifting dynamic.

Whether or not we are conscious of it, there’s always a tenuous “balance of power” in any relationship, personal or familial. In this respect, Phantom Thread, while a unique entry in an already offbeat canon, does retain certain themes prevalent throughout Anderson’s oeuvre. As I observed in my review of Anderson’s 2012 drama, The Master:

And so begins the life-altering relationship between the two men, which vacillates tenuously between master/servant, mentor/apprentice, and father/son (the latter recalling Philip Baker Hall and John C. Reilly in “Hard Eight”, Burt Reynolds and Mark Wahlberg in “Boogie Nights”, Tom Cruise and Jason Robards in “Magnolia”, and Daniel Day-Lewis and Dillon Freasier/Paul Dano in “There Will Be Blood”).

Obviously, there is no “father/son” (nor “father/daughter”-thank god) analogy to Reynold and Alma’s love affair in Phantom Thread, but their relationship does vacillate between husband/wife, artist/muse, mentor/apprentice, and (in its own fashion) master/servant.

It seems redundant to tell you that Daniel Day-Lewis’ typically immersive performance is nothing short of astonishing. If he really is hanging up his Oscar-baiting shoes after this one, I’m missing him already (as is the Academy, apparently…he snagged a Best Actor nomination earlier this week). Krieps and Manville (up for Best Supporting Actress) are also quite wonderful. Like most of the director’s work, it may not be for all tastes, but if you are up for a challenge and willing to pay attention, this movie is tailor-made for you.

Previous posts with related themes:

Paper Ring: The 10 Worst Date Flicks for Valentine’s Day
The Master
There Will Be Blood

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President Kelly raises Trump’s life long daddy issues

President Kelly raises Trump’s life long daddy issuesby digby

Nobody puts Trumpie in the corner:

When White House Chief of Staff John F. Kelly stopped by the Oval Office to see President Trump late Wednesday, Kelly said he couldn’t stay long because reporters were in his office waiting for a briefing on immigration policy.

Deciding not to leave the session to his top aide, Trump walked down the hall minutes later and made a surprise appearance in Kelly’s office. The president proceeded to field a rush of questions on the Russia investigation with answers that rattled his lawyers and senior aides and left Kelly dealing with the fallout.

The episode illustrates the unusual and sometimes strained relationship between the garrulous president and his second chief of staff, who has imposed sharp restrictions on many of Trump’s friends — and even his children — as Kelly seeks to direct the flow of information and influence in the Oval Office.

Trump has at times bristled at the restrictions and, in recent weeks, has openly chafed at the idea that Kelly, not he, is effectively running the business of the White House, associates say. Kelly stayed behind in Washington this week while Trump traveled to the Davos global summit in Switzerland — a change of plans that prompted notice among those close to Trump.

Yet the two also remain close in many ways, making the up-and-down dynamics a guessing game for those who work with them. While the two men fight and swear at each other at times, Kelly sees Trump more than anyone else, and confidants say the volatility in their relationship is natural. Trump has often interrupted meetings to ask Kelly’s opinion and has told others he respects the former Marine general’s time in the military and his stature, according to White House officials and people who know them.

White House Chief of Staff John F. Kelly has often clashed with President Trump, but the president respects Kelly’s time in the military and stature, aides say. (Jabin Botsford/The Washington Post)
“Is that right?” Trump asked Kelly a number of times during a recent meeting, seeking his perspective as they met with Reps. Mark Meadows (R-N.C.) and Raúl R. Labrador (R-Idaho), according to people with knowledge of the meeting.

Trump critics have questioned whether Kelly’s style of managing the president is always best. While he has sometimes kept bad information from getting to the president, he has also intervened to block bipartisan deals that Trump wanted to strike on immigration and reinforced some of the president’s most contentious positions. Several of Trump’s most controversial and racially incendiary moments — such as his remarks last summer after riots in Charlottesville and his recent disparaging comments about African nations — also came as Kelly looked on.

Trump has lashed out when he feels Kelly is getting too much credit or taking too much of the spotlight, friends and associates said. The president was furious last week when Kelly said Trump was “uninformed” in his call for a border wall during the 2016 presidential campaign, according to two people familiar with those discussions, who requested anonymity to describe Trump’s reaction.

“A lot of people know the border wall is the dumbest idea,” said Chris Whipple, author of a book on presidential chiefs of staff. “Kelly made the mistake of saying it aloud on Fox.”

Trump has joked to associates that Kelly has cut his phone line, outside advisers said. He has told friends that he can come by “only if the general approves.” And the president has complained that he never sees staff members anymore and occasionally sits in the office alone, aides said.

“As long as you’re being useful to the president, then he’s more likely to keep you around,” said Ed Brookover, a longtime campaign adviser. “But you can’t ever forget that we have initials, too: JFS. We’re ‘just freaking staff.’ ”

One reason Trump stays in the personal residence section of the White House so late every morning — sometimes until after 10 a.m. — is because he has access to his phone and has fewer restrictions, associates say. Kelly has told others he is fine with such “executive time,” as it is referred to on his schedule.

This isn’t going to last. Trump loves the generals but he can’t take being told what to do. There are a lot of reports like this. Vanity Fair had this one last week:

“The more Kelly plays up that he’s being the adult in the room—that it’s basically combat duty and he’s serving the country—that kind of thing drives Trump nuts,” a Republican close to the White House said. In recent days, Trump has fumed to friends that Kelly acts like he’s running the government while Trump tweets and watches television. “I’ve got another nut job here who thinks he’s running things,” Trump told one friend, according to a Republican briefed on the call. A second source confirmed that Trump has vented about Kelly, mentioning one call in which Trump said, “This guy thinks he’s running the show.”

Personally I think Kelly is a malignant force in the White House because he’s all in on Trump’s white nationalist agenda. He’s a xenophobe of long standing and a hard core drug warrior. On the other hand, the real problem is Trump. No matter who he hires, the administration will be total mess.

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Melania humiliated

Melania humiliated
by digby

I don’t know if this is true. It’s the Daily Mail (which is usually sympathetic to Trump.) But it would not surprise me. The details of Trump and Stormy Daniels’ relationship were graphic and creepy. If she knows it’s possible — or if her husband admitted it and told her STFU, which is more likely — she has to feel terrible. It may not be the reason she dropped out of the trip and changed her plans abruptly but I wouldn’t be surprised.

Daniels, who has starred in movies such as ‘Good Will Humping’ and ‘Operation Desert Stormy,’ claimed she could intimately describe the president’s manhood and even revealed sex positions they had enjoyed.

At the time, Melania would have been caring for her and Trump’s four-month-old son Barron.

Sparking more rumors and speculation about the impact on their marriage, on Tuesday it was announced she would not be joining President Trump on his trip to the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland as was originally planned.

East Wing communications director Stephanie Grisham confirmed to DailyMail.com that the first lady’s decision to forgo the trip to Davos was based on ‘scheduling and logistical issues,’ as CNN reported.

Grisham had said the First Lady had intended to go to Davos as a show of support for her husband, who will deliver a speech at the forum.

But White House sources have told DailyMail.com that a memo sent to staffers also indicated the first lady was not expected to make any solo appearances while the President is away, drawing into question how her schedule is conflicted.

One well-placed source said: ‘Melania spends three to four days a week away from the White House and has stayed at a hotel in D.C. multiple times in January, often for days at a time. She also travels up to New York.

‘She rarely comes into his West Wing office as other first ladies have done and her schedule is vague at best.

‘She seems to be avoiding duties unless there is a very special reason.

‘Talk among staffers is that the Stormy Daniels affair hit her hard, it’s been upsetting and humiliating and her relationship with President Trump has become strained.

And regardless of how you feel about her and her choices in a husband and political views, humiliation in the face of the world knowing that your husband was unfaithful is a universal feeling. And that it would have been with a porn star while he was haranguing her about “losing the baby weight” has to sting. It’s as gross as it gets. I can’t help but feel some compassion for her in this situation.

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