A Real Cult

by digby

Here’s some interesting Sunday reading. If, like many Americans (and all “Big Love” enthusiasts) you are a fascinated by the story of the FLDS cult down in Texas, Sara Robinson has written a couple of fascinating posts on the subject.

This one, taking on the mainstream media’s insistence that the women aren’t technically “brainwashed” is very informative.

The problem, as it so often is with the mainstream media, is that absolutely everybody involved with reporting or commenting on this story has been airlifted into it in the past few days. (You’d think somebody would have at least taken the time on the plane flight to skim Krakauer’s book and get up to speed. You’d be wrong.) And this is just one example of the ways that ignorance of the backstory cheats the rest of us out of a real understanding of what’s going on here.

Because, by the definition offered by these experts, the FLDS is very coercive indeed.

Almost every feature of these women’s lives is determined by someone else. They do not choose what they wear, whom they live with, when and whom they marry, or when and with whom they have sex. From the day they’re born, they can be reassigned at a moment’s notice to another father or husband, another household, or another community. Most will have no educational choices (FLDS kids are taught in church-run schools, usually only through about tenth grade — by which point they girls are usually married and pregnant). Everything they produce goes into a trust controlled by the patriarch: they do not even own their own labor. If they object to any of this, they’re subject to losing access to the resources they need to raise their kids: they can be moved to a trailer with no heat, and given less food than more compliant wives, until they learn to “keep sweet.”

At the very least, women who do decide to leave the sect leave without money, skills, or a friend in the world. Most of them have no choice but to leave large numbers of children behind — children who are the property of the patriarch, and whom many of them will never see again. If a woman is even suspected of wanting to leave, she’s likely to be sent away from her kids to another compound far yonder as punishment for her rebelliousness. For a woman who’s been taught all her life that motherhood is her only destiny and has no real intimacy with her husband, being separated from her children this way is a sacrifice akin to death.

At the very worst, death is indeed what awaits them. The FLDS preaches “blood atonement” — the right of the patriarchs to kill apostates who dare to defy them, usually by slitting their throats. And they’ve done it: Krakauer hung his entire book on the murder of Brenda Lafferty and her year-old daughter, who were both killed by her husband’s brothers because Brenda rejected (and mocked) her husband’s desire to take plural wives. (Warren Jeffs also liked to rouse people out of their beds in the middle of the night for dramatic mass meetings testing their readiness for the Final Judgment — meetings that had dark shades of Jonestown.) Brenda is the only one known to have been killed, but others who’ve left report being threatened with the same fate.

So ABC’s reporters blather on about how these women aren’t really brainwashed, because that would require coercion and being held physically against their will. One hopes that if they understood that they’re holding forth about a group that routinely controls women by threatening to take away their kids — and tells them that God justifies the slaying of wayward brides and their babies — they’d change their minds and admit that this isn’t just another odd, quaint sect on the American religious scene. Without that information, though, everything else that’s going on in Texas loses much of its context.

Much more at Orcinus.

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