Women Trouble

Matt Stoller has a fascinating post up in which he describes a Republican training seminar for women. They laid out the strategy for getting to their target group in this election — “married women with high religiosity, women who voted for Bush in 2000 and value their family’s safety.” This explains the bizarre babble I heard the other night on Matthews after Laura Bush’s speech. They were, unsurprisingly, parroting GOP talking points (which are pretty insulting if you ask me.)

However, they seem to have targeted a very specific group whom they evidently don’t feel they are insulting by characterizing them as something like nineteenth century farmwives with no knowledge of the world beyond their homestead. I guess the Republicans know their constituency.

What’s interesting to me about the data Matt compiles is the focus group comments from independent Republican-leaning women, 30% of whom are undecided:

*”I don’t believe anything anymore”

* “I don’t like slinging mud and they all do it…”

* “I can’t hear anything from a government and trust it.”

* “I don’t believe anything anymore and we can’t make a difference because we don’t have any truth…”

* “I don’t really know aht’s happening but I know someone knows what’s happening.”

* “I absolutely believe they have no clue.”

* “They tell us to keep doing what I’ve always done, but watch out for something. If there’s something I’m supposed to worry about why am I supposed to do what I’ve always done?”

* “Kerry hasn’t won my trust yet, I don’t feel safe with him. I’m waiting to see, I think we are vulnerable.”

* “If Kerry did win the change of hands of government would lessen the protection of the country.”

* “We’re putting money into the college funds every month and it seems like it stays at the same level.”

* “What’s going to be there when our kids are ready.”

* “What’s going on with the economy. I’m not happy with my job.”

* “Turning the corner – I didn’t get that one. I want to find that corner and stand on that corner.”

These are Republican leaning married women. And they do not sound as if they are very happy with the way our politics are being waged and they are very cynical. They don’t sound like nineteenth century farmwives to me, they sound like some severely irritated twenty first century citizens.

This issue of rabid partisanship is a difficult problem to engage right now because just as these women, and I suspect many others, are getting sick and tired of the yelling and screaming — the white male contingent is kicking it up a notch. And, if you don’t properly fight back you risk looking weak, which neither men or women want, but if you do fight back, these exasperated women see you as part of the problem, not the solution. It’s the old, “I don’t care who started it, you’re both grounded” routine. Not that I blame them. It is exhausting and you have to wonder sometimes if there will ever be an end to it.

But, I have to say that if those comments are representative of this group then the Zellfire and brimstone attack of the last couple of days probably has gone over like a lead balloon with these women. From Matt’s post it appears the GOP believes they are looking for someone to “protect” them and will respond to male strength. That sounds like wingnut wishful thinking to me. Those comments sound like some people who are sick of the bullshit and would like their leaders to shut the hell up and start dealing with reality. I don’t think many of them would have been impressed by this cock-of-the-walk chest thumping that’s been going on this week in NYC.

There’s a reason why the gender gap continues to widen. The GOP remains an old fashioned boys club that welcomes rich trophy wives and fundamentalist believers in female subservience. Until they figure out that those two categories are rapidly dwindling groups in this culture and that most women reasonably don’t see politics as a particularly heroic endeavor, all this strutting around with codpieces is pretty much playing to the locker room crowd. Women are their own heroes these days.

Read Matt’s post all the way through if you’re interested in this topic. He brings up one thing that is crucial and that is the the Democrats don’t do this kind of grassroots seminar teaching which is a big mistake. People on the ground want the talking points and the rationale, they just don’t know where to get it. If the Dems aren’t doing this they damned sure should be.

Update: John Edwards knows how to make this appeal for our side and it’s not because he’s so darned cute. It’s because he knows how to subtly aim the message.

“If you got up and went to the refrigerator to get a Diet Coke, you would have missed any discussion of what they’re going to do about health care, what they’re going to do about jobs, what they plan to do about this mess in Iraq.”

Diet coke, see? He’s not talking to some hairy mook.

Update II:

Here’s a little bit of the premiere wingnut talk radio harpy, Dr Laura’s, new book:

I believe [women’s self-centeredness] is a result of the women’s movement, with its condemnation of just about everything male as evil, stupid, and oppressive, and the denigration of female and male roles in families, as well as the loss of family functioning as a result of divorce, day care, dual careers, and the glorification of shacking up and unwed motherhood by choice. These are the core destructive influences that result in women not appreciating that they are perfected when they are bonded in wedlock and have obligations to family.

I think that says it all.